Compassion, Wisdom, and Living With Eternal Perspective
I counted it up the other day and guess what? Mike and I have moved six times in ten years!
Our first of these moves came six months or so after all three of our sons moved out of our house one summer. I knew the day of empty nesting would come, but I wasn’t mentally or emotionally prepared for it to happen all at one time.
We donated items, gave things away, and got rid of so much stuff! It felt good to have a lighter load.
Then we moved into an 800 square foot garage apartment. Talk about an adjustment to living arrangements!
And then it came…
I should have known it was coming, but I wasn’t prepared for the physical, spiritual, and psychological upheaval of menopause.
Whatever level of spiritual maturity I felt I had reached until this point was supremely challenged.
I found myself angry for no reason and my words were not always compassionate or wise.
Why am I telling you this sad part of my story?
Because as a woman of God, we are called to speak wisdom and to have a heart of compassion and generosity for others, even if it isn’t always easy.
👋If you’re ready to deepen your walk with God, I’d love to walk alongside you. Join me as we learn simple, life-giving ways to read and study the Bible one faithful step at a time.
Growing in THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT
Our Words Matter
Friend, our words matter. The Bible tells us there is life and death in the tongue (Proverbs 18:21 NIV). As women of God we have the power to lift up or tear down our relationships with only a few careless words.
Psalm 139:4 tells us:
Before a word is on my tongue,
you know all about it, Lord.
As mid-life women over forty, hopefully we’ve gained some wisdom, by now. Our eternal perspective can not be understanding the privilege and opportunity we have to leave a legacy of wisdom to the next generation.
She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
Proverbs 31:26 NIV
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From Accumulation to Overflow
Mid-life can be a time to evaluate what we’ve accumulated over time. I’m not speaking of items in our homes, garages, and storage units, but rather our spiritual lives.
By now, we’ve had the opportunity to know, live, and share God’s word with our families, communities, and in our extended family.
This season of empty nesting, rearranging our homes, and even career changes can be opportunities to evaluate our spiritual growth and ask ourselves where we can release our schedules to make room for the things of God, asking HIm to use us in new and different ways.
New Seasons Call for New Perspectives
I’m discovering in mid-life that I need to replace my perspective of building a home and life with my husband. While these are still important, I’m also being led to see my life from heaven’s view point.
As birthdays keep rolling around, I’m more aware than ever that what I do with this life I’ve been given has opened up to more opportunities to invest and encourage others.
👉I know you’ll love reading this article! What Does it Mean to Abide in Christ
Along the way, there have been other women who were farther along in their life’s journey who demonstrated how a godly woman approaches relationships, especially with the next generation.
Here are some of the ways women in my life have inspired and encouraged me:
- They demonstrated compassion through their presence and generosity.
I watched these women show up for their friends and loved ones of all ages during times of tragedy or celebration. Not to take over or to compare or complain, but to offer their hands and hearts in ways that spoke volumes of love and care.
I hope to emulate this kind of generous compassion, too.
- They spoke with Spirit-led wisdom and grace into the lives of those around them.
I was fortunate to be around a group of women who laughed, cried, and supported each other through life’s various seasons. Somehow they knew when to speak and when to be silent and when they did speak their words were healing and helpful.
To summarize my point, I believe that spiritual maturity produces a life that blesses others naturally and joyfully.
YOUR TURN
Who is God inviting me to encourage this year?
What words do I want to be known for?
💙Would you be willing to pray with me daily?
“Lord, help me speak life to others today.”
My Challenge to You:
Look for someone you can intentionally encourage in their spiritual journey.
BEFORE YOU GO!
👉If you’ve been encouraged by this post, I invite you to read the entire Modern Proverbs 31 Woman January Series, where we explore how spiritual growth shapes our faith, homes, and daily lives in every season.
Compassion, Wisdom, and Living With Eternal Perspective
I counted it up the other day and guess what? Mike and I have moved six times in ten years!
Our first of these moves came six months or so after all three of our sons moved out of our house one summer. I knew the day of empty nesting would come, but I wasn’t mentally or emotionally prepared for it to happen all at one time.
We donated items, gave things away, and got rid of so much stuff! It felt good to have a lighter load.
Then we moved into an 800 square foot garage apartment. Talk about an adjustment to living arrangements!
And then it came…
I should have known it was coming, but I wasn’t prepared for the physical, spiritual, and psychological upheaval of menopause.
Whatever level of spiritual maturity I felt I had reached until this point was supremely challenged.
I found myself angry for no reason and my words were not always compassionate or wise.
Why am I telling you this sad part of my story?
Because as a woman of God, we are called to speak wisdom and to have a heart of compassion and generosity for others, even if it isn’t always easy.
👋If you’re ready to deepen your walk with God, I’d love to walk alongside you. Join me as we learn simple, life-giving ways to read and study the Bible one faithful step at a time.
Growing in THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT
Our Words Matter
Friend, our words matter. The Bible tells us there is life and death in the tongue (Proverbs 18:21 NIV). As women of God we have the power to lift up or tear down our relationships with only a few careless words.
Psalm 139:4 tells us:
Before a word is on my tongue,
you know all about it, Lord.
As mid-life women over forty, hopefully we’ve gained some wisdom, by now. Our eternal perspective can not be understanding the privilege and opportunity we have to leave a legacy of wisdom to the next generation.
She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
Proverbs 31:26 NIV
👉You might like Growing in Confidence and Character
From Accumulation to Overflow
Mid-life can be a time to evaluate what we’ve accumulated over time. I’m not speaking of items in our homes, garages, and storage units, but rather our spiritual lives.
By now, we’ve had the opportunity to know, live, and share God’s word with our families, communities, and in our extended family.
This season of empty nesting, rearranging our homes, and even career changes can be opportunities to evaluate our spiritual growth and ask ourselves where we can release our schedules to make room for the things of God, asking HIm to use us in new and different ways.
New Seasons Call for New Perspectives
I’m discovering in mid-life that I need to replace my perspective of building a home and life with my husband. While these are still important, I’m also being led to see my life from heaven’s view point.
As birthdays keep rolling around, I’m more aware than ever that what I do with this life I’ve been given has opened up to more opportunities to invest and encourage others.
👉I know you’ll love reading this article! What Does it Mean to Abide in Christ
Along the way, there have been other women who were farther along in their life’s journey who demonstrated how a godly woman approaches relationships, especially with the next generation.
Here are some of the ways women in my life have inspired and encouraged me:
- They demonstrated compassion through their presence and generosity.
I watched these women show up for their friends and loved ones of all ages during times of tragedy or celebration. Not to take over or to compare or complain, but to offer their hands and hearts in ways that spoke volumes of love and care.
I hope to emulate this kind of generous compassion, too.
- They spoke with Spirit-led wisdom and grace into the lives of those around them.
I was fortunate to be around a group of women who laughed, cried, and supported each other through life’s various seasons. Somehow they knew when to speak and when to be silent and when they did speak their words were healing and helpful.
To summarize my point, I believe that spiritual maturity produces a life that blesses others naturally and joyfully.
YOUR TURN
Who is God inviting me to encourage this year?
What words do I want to be known for?
💙Would you be willing to pray with me daily?
“Lord, help me speak life to others today.”
My Challenge to You:
Look for someone you can intentionally encourage in their spiritual journey.
BEFORE YOU GO!
👉If you’ve been encouraged by this post, I invite you to read the entire Modern Proverbs 31 Woman January Series, where we explore how spiritual growth shapes our faith, homes, and daily lives in every season.
👉 [Link to series hub or Post #1]
